How would you like to become a conversational change wizard, & learn the secrets of thought & expression that will give you the kind of reputation for results that means you can name your price & achieve things most people never even dream of?
Before learning NLP, I had dabbled with hypnosis. So the notion that we each have an unconscious mind, & that it's possible to communicate directly with a person's unconscious was not a surprise. But learning how powerful that could be with _care-full_ language really inspired me.
I wonder how many people you know who are able to take a unique & empowering perspective on things.
Maybe it is someone who consistently uses analogies & metaphors that change the way people think about a specific problem or challenge.
Maybe it's a friend who can be counted on to give a unique view on a situation.
Maybe it's someone who is unusually successful financially, or with members of the opposite sex.
And maybe it is a comedian who can tell a joke or a funny story that transforms the way you perceive a situation.
These kinds of people are deeply impressive .... until you realise that it's not just something they were born with, it's a skill you can learn for yourself!
Reframing is what Milton Erickson was so exquisite at.
Reframing is what comedians are doing when they make you laugh.
It's what film-makers do when they put a twist in the plot.
And it's what Robert Dilts modeled from Richard Bandler when he developed the patterns that are now called Sleight-of-Mouth.
Sleigh-of-mouth is one of the most powerful linguistic tools there is. It's the toolset for conversational belief-change, & includes dozens of reframing patterns.
Imagine being able to:
This is what Sleight-of-mouth offers. There's only one problem.
It's got a reputation for being NOTORIOUSLY difficult to learn.
That's why so many people who go on NLP courses end up doing those "annoying little reframes" that make people want to punch them on the nose. Because they haven't learned the keys to making sleight of mouth work effectively & elegantly.
Of course, if anyone tells you anything is difficult to learn, you can decide not to believe it!
And using SALAD's NLP Belief Buster cards, you will have fun seeing how easy and quick it is to wire these phrases into your daily language.
"Dear Salad, I wanted to write and tell you just how much value I have found in the Salad NLP Language Cards. My goal was to use the cards to coach myself to set goals and overcome limiting beliefs that have, until now, prevented me from living the life I want. For that reason, I have found the NLP Coaching Cards to be the most valuable personal growth purchase I have ever made. By themselves the Coaching Cards are fantastic, and I was very excited to find that Salad released a deck of Belief Buster Cards. Finally, the 1-2 punch I have been looking for to detoxify my system of beliefs and ideas that had been hiding like ninja's sabotaging my success. Furthermore, the Belief Buster DVD really unlocks the power of the cards and shows you how to use them for maximum effect. It is not an exaggeration to say the Salad NLP Language Cards have changed my life and will help me to help others change their lives." - Fred Lunjevich, Copywriter
* Rapport is essential!
* Assume the person can do (on some level) what they say they can’t.
* Assume & uncover the positive intention / purpose of the belief.
* Acknowledge the reality of the situation.
* Determine the belief’s structure.
* The belief will be represented in the body in some way. Belief-change will involve state-change.
* Remember that beliefs are self-protective, survival oriented, & tend to travel in packs!
* Presuppose that beliefs are perceptions.
* Wire in the language patterns on these cards & enjoy experimenting with them.
* Know your outcome, & be present, aware & intuitive. Language patterns are not a substitute for a sense of direction, open sensory channels, & behavioural flexibility.
I'll start (as usual) by saying who it isn't for - it isn't for people who just want the theory but don't want to get their hands dirty. Only purchase this product if you want to develop real skills. People who work in the area of change or are studying it will obviously benefit, including NLP Practitioners, therapists, coaches, trainers, doctors, consultants and the like.
Each set of cards includes: